What Do Men Like In A Woman

What Do Men Like In a Woman?

The Real Truth:

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I don’t know how you landed here, but let me assure you that if you have been dying to figure men out & want to know why men do what they do then this page has all the answers you need.

I strongly suggest that you stop whatever you are doing right now and pay close attention to every single word on this page…Trust me! It will be worth it, let me show you why:

Does your mind go completely insane when you are in a situation with a guy where you can’t figure out why he is doing what he is doing?

Do you often think:

Why doesn’t he like me?
Why does he only want sex?
When will he commit?
What does he like or see in other women & not me?
Why does he reject me, and what do I lack?
Why doesn’t he love me?
Why do good men always run away from me?
Why do I always end up with losers?

It’s the basic: “Why…Why…Why?” syndrome, and I know these questions can drive you completely insane!

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This is where women tend to think that their life would be MUCH easier if only they had access to some sort of magic tool which would show them exactly what a man is thinking.

Well…Reality can be mean. Life doesn’t always turn out the way you planned; especially when it comes to men and relationships… so it’s every woman’s fantasy to be able to finally have their life turn out like a fairy tale in the end.

I am sure when you were a little girl you had dreams about how perfect your life is going to be some day.

You dreamed about how your prince charming would magically come into your life and make you feel complete, and how everything would work out.

But now you realize it was all a dream, and reality has another plan for you: a plan you didn’t prepare yourself for.

Who knew men could be so complex?

Who knew relationships were so HARD and involved a never ending cycle of pain & pleasure?

In fact, EVERY single woman out there will at some point in her life experience:


And it goes on and on, BUT, there is a fairytale world in between the complexity of men, because when dealing with a man she will ALSO experience:

…..and many MORE similar and positive emotions.

But here’s where it all breaks down…

Why do some women have more positive experiences than negative ones?

Well the answer is pretty simple and not an obvious one. These women understand what a man wants… And no…it’s not the right clothes, the right make up, the right hair etc…etc. That is all absolute CRAP!

That’s why I hate those talk show women who yap on endlessly about how you can make yourself the “super Barbie doll” who is pretty & attracts great men.

It’s ridiculous to even consider some of the advice given in these shows.

Sure you will attract a lot of men just by making adjustments in the way you look but that doesn’t mean you can buy his affection or love. Being a man myself let me tell you that when we see a pretty woman…our first thought is how to get her into bed. Period!

If a guy looks at you and is checking you out – Do you believe he is thinking “Wow! What a pretty girl! I would like her to be my wife & want to have kids with her”?
Heck No! He is trying to figure out how he can get you into bed as quickly as possible.

Here is THE fact…And I know this will lead to a lot of arguments but:

A man can easily go to bed with you without having any emotional attachment towards you.

Men label women into two groups-

A woman he would just casually have sex with.
A woman he would want to be in a relationship with.

So ladies…Here is the truth- If a guy is having sex with you right now but is reluctant to talk about where things are headed then he has actually put you in the casual sex category.

Ever heard a guy say – “I just don’t want anything serious right now”?

It’s that same old boring line men use isn’t it? But does it mean he isn’t ready for anything serious? Heck NO!

What it means that he isn’t ready for anything serious with YOU. Yeah I know! It’s painful but the truth often hurts.

So now the big question is this: How can you avoid being a casual fling to him and become a woman he would want to get into a relationship with?

Here are some guidelines you need to follow…

Men Want a Woman Who is Non-Needy

Have you ever had those moments where you are talking to a guy & everything is going extremely well…the conversation is flowing well….

You can feel that instant connection. You like him a lot & now you are wondering how to make it absolutely certain that he will go out with you again? Now you are trying to figure out how to say the right thing and are trying hard not to mess it up.

You want to know more and more about him….

All of a sudden you are asking him lots of questions left, right, and center:

…Are you single?
…What do you do for fun?
…Do you have any siblings?
Etc etc etc…

Then the meeting comes to an end, he takes your phone number, and promises to call you.

You go back home…Filled with excitement.

You call your best friend & tell her about this handsome hunk you ran into today, explain how exciting it was for you, talk about how much fun you had, and all the other good stuff. Everyone is all chirped up and happy.

And then the waiting game starts…

You wait for his call. You check your phone a million times a day. You get super excited every time you see a call from an unknown number…Only to be disappointed when you answer it, because:

It’s not him…

And you wait…wait…and WAIT…He never called.

Confused, you call up your good old best friend again and discuss the possible reasons why he didn’t call; and after the end of a long conversation you two agree that he was just another jerk.

And this is where the story ends.

Here is the reality about human beings – Our minds are very quick to judge. We see something and form a judgment within seconds.

Men do the same thing.

If a man didn’t call you after a date even when he promised he would, then this means that in his mind you are overly needy. And neediness kills attraction.

This is a common pattern most women get sucked into: When you like a guy your normal desire is to get that guy to like you back…which for most women, means doing everything you can to accomplish that.

And in the process…You stop being your best self and start doing things just to impress the guy. Guys can sense this: a guy can sense when you like him….BUT, he can easily see when you are trying TOO hard to impress him.

This is how a man sees it:

“Oh she likes me…Interesting!”

“She’s asking too many questions…I guess she totally digs me.”

“She is getting weird now…Too many personal questions.”

“How do I get rid of her?”

And bam…Now you know how he saw the whole situation.

From the interaction and the way you behaved you projected a very needy attitude.

Men only feel attraction towards women who are not trying to gain their acceptance, which means you have to be non-needy. In order to accomplish that, you have to understand a two very important things here:

…You have to convey to him that you like him BUT that doesn’t mean you will make extra attempts to impress him to gain his acceptance.

…You have to be yourself like you normally are. When you make changes in your personality just to impress him or gain his acceptance he can easily sense that and it will backfire.

So how do you know when you are not being yourself when you are around a guy you really like? Well it’s simple:

If you find yourself saying the things you won’t normally say and doing the things you won’t normally do in his company then you are definitely on the wrong path. Stop yourself right there – and ask yourself – Am I normally like this?

And you will know exactly what to do.

Naturally, women know what they want, but don’t know what to do to get it. You’ll find yourself doing anything that just comes to mind, even though you aren’t sure it may work, to try and win a guy over.

This is where a strong understanding of men comes into play.

If a woman does not understand how a man’s mind works, or what she needs to do specifically to make him react positively in return, she will end up noticing that men lose interest and leave.

But, if a woman understands how a man’s mind works, she will KNOW exactly what to do in any situation, and the results will be everything she hoped for.

I have spent a lot of time and energy into figuring out some of the best insights and tactics a woman can use to get everything she wants out of her man.

In fact, I have taken the time to break apart a man’s mind and lay it out clearly for women to understand and use in their dating life.

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Wednesday, 15 June 2011

Why Do Some Women Always Date Losers?

“Why Do Some Women Always Date Losers?”

Do you know of someone who has a pattern of always dating losers, bad boys, who always break their heart and leave them crying? For those women, oftentimes they need help in identifying the signs of such unreliable men.

Let’s define a loser as a man who is totally into himself and has little empathy for a woman’s needs. He is a man who has a pattern of sweet talking women in an attempt to sweep them off their feet and into the nearest bed. He will wine you and dine you and tell you how beautiful you are and how lucky he is to have met you. These men are very good at what they do because they’ve had a lot of practice!

These men are wonderful in the beginning of a relationship; however, in time they most always become less attached and more distant to their partner. Some never call back, others break dates and some even “forget” their wallet and their date ends up paying for the meal.
Have you ever met or dated a man such as this? Perhaps he never said he loved you, and whenever you spoke about commitment, he would change the subject.

The truth is that no woman ever wakes up in the morning and says to herself, “Today I need to find a man who will hurt me.” Rather what most often happens is that many women (and men) tend to confuse intensity with reliability. They meet someone who makes them FEEL wonderful or excited and they assume that he is a good man. The problem isn’t that their feelings are wrong. What gets them into trouble is that their intense feelings often cause them to ignore bad or inconsistent behavior that they would clearly see if they were not so emotionally involved.

What if there was a way to effortlessly attract men that were both exciting as well as dependable? Not simply a technique, but a manual that showed how successful women captivate men in such a way that they never get mistreated.
What if information was available to transform you into the woman that men adore? Thankfully such information is available and it’s just one click away. “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave,” shows every woman the secrets to attract and keep the man of her dreams. CLICK HERE to see for yourself!

“What Am I Doing Wrong”?

Have you ever said this to yourself, “It seems I can’t do anything right with men.”
Being a responsible person, you work hard at a fulfilling and sometimes demanding job. It’s not that you don’t try to be kind, gracious and patient, but none of that seems to be getting you anywhere. Perhaps the men you date don’t seem to appreciate you or if you’re married it might seem as though your husband seems less interested in your marriage than he did not so long ago.

You’re open to advice, but where should you turn?

If you can relate to this, there is good news. A wonderful book called, “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave,” will show you exactly the characteristics that men find irresistible in a woman. The good news is that these are things that ANY woman can apply. But there is one word of warning. These insights are powerful and might seem unconventional to a woman because they were designed by a man, to affect men. Please remember this rule: What works with women does not work with men.

Many women have come to this realization when they say these things, “The more I try to please him, the more distant he seems to become.”
“When I ask him what’s wrong, he says nothing.”

If you’re a woman who feels frustrated in her relationships, there is good news. You don’t have to try harder, you simply need to know WHAT to try. What you need is a blueprint of what men find captivating in a woman and most likely did in you, as well. “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave,” is a bestselling e-book that shows women exactly how to attract AND keep a man. This information can be yours simply by CLICKING HERE.

When it Comes to Men, Some Women Have It...and You Can As Well!

When it Comes to Men, Some Women Have It...and You Can Too!

by Bob Grant, L.P.C. author of “The Woman Men Adore”

Every day in my counseling office, I hear women say some variation of this:

“In the last few years, I have had relationships with men who, at first, seemed perfect for me. They were attentive, attractive and fun to be around. Then suddenly, as if they knew they had reeled me in, they stopped trying. They stopped calling as much, stopped taking me out and basically stopped the romantic dance that couples do when they are falling in love. Was it me? After all, I think I’m attractive, have a good personality and I work out to keep my body in nice shape. So why then, do I always end up with the men who become “couch potatoes” at my house? The men who would rather bring a six pack over and watch football all day and then expect me to fix dinner? Do I suddenly turn into just a “buddy” to them, the girl next door?

I see other women who, frankly, are not as attractive as I am or as thin as I am, who seem to get the “hot” men. I don’t necessarily mean gorgeous men, but the men who take them to nice restaurants, bring them flowers, take them dancing and, basically, “court” them. What secrets do they know that I don’t, because they certainly aren’t sharing them?”

Most women think a wonderful relationship is simply about finding the right man. The truth is that those women who have wonderful relationships didn’t necessarily know where to find good men, instead they attracted them. Would you like to learn how to attract and keep a wonderful man? The best way to find out probably isn’t by talking to a woman; instead, a man would be able to give you the secrets to a man’s heart.

I’d like to share with you the secrets that men find irresistible and powerless to resist. The dirty little secret is that having a perfect body isn’t nearly as important as you have been led to believe. You can discover this incredible information by simply CLICKING HERE.

Thursday, 27 May 2010

Make a Guy Fall in Love - Deeply and Seriously

Make a Guy Fall in Love - Deeply and Seriously
By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Tina_L._Jones]Tina L. Jones

Have you been trying to make a guy fall in love with you, but failed miserably so far? Do you long to be in a relationship with Mr. Right, but he seems to need some convincing? What can you do? What tactics and techniques work? We are here to help. We have some great dating advice. We can help you to make a guy fall in love - deeply and seriously.

So, what does it take? Think for a minute about male psychology. What do men want in a woman? It really is not that difficult to figure out. What will attract men? They want, of course, someone who is good looking. So -

Pay attention to your looks.

Good looks are a huge attraction to men. Make sure that your hair style is flattering. Do you clothes fit right and are they attractive? Is your make up right; enhancing your looks? If you are not sure about any of these, ask a friend. Then, when she is honest with you, make sure that you are not offended. That would not be fair. But put into practice what she says and make the improvements you need to make.

Men also want someone who is fun to be with. So -

Pay attention to your personality.

Are you fun to be with? Do you smile easily? Do you laugh easily? Do you know how to make other people laugh and feel good? These things will make a guy fall in love and make him commit to you for life. If you tend to talk about your problems and you depression, people will avoid you. It is so much better to talk about cheerful, happy things. That makes people around you cheerful and happy. And they appreciate you more for making them feel that way.

There you have it. Those are some great tips on how to make him fall in love with you. Pay attention to your looks and personality. These things can make a guy fall in love with you - deeply and seriously.

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Women fall faster, men fall deeper

What Men Want in a Woman - Understanding the Male Species

By: Mark Taylor

The million dollar question: What do men want in a woman? There's this new quote that goes, "Women fall faster, men fall deeper." It may be a little disturbing and may send women wondering hard in wide-eye if this is a miracle or breakthrough. Since when did men become too attached? Is being too deep even in their vocabulary? As far as women know, men are the most disconnected, downright unfeeling beings of the world. Now, now, there's no need to be self-righteous. Have you even asked yourself what men want in a woman? Well, of course. It's one of the greatest mysteries we have tried to solve for the longest time.

Have you ever tried to figure out why women are the ones giving birth and not men? Let me discuss. Women are given more tolerance to pain then men thus being the ones bestowed of labor pains. Their pain threshold is amazing you start thinking why they are usually branded as the weaker sex. Now, I'm not saying men are the puny ones. It's just that men are more prone to strong emotions that women. Do you get the picture? The males tend to avoid too much sensitivity because once they have started become too aware of their feelings, they may tend to become more emotionally expressive than women. However, women are still obviously the more transparent type. One little argument and it will send them brawling and crying their hearts out. Men, on the other hand, will never do this. So what does men want in a woman?

Men thrive more as thinkers while women have a strong need for drama. While men are systematic and will look on ways how to get through a problem, women would love to talk, whine and go on tantrums. Women are constant worriers. One day missed without their guy calling would send their minds running a mile a minute. Men are constant problem-solvers. They want you to do the same. Instead of hammering on why things don't work for the both you, they want you to create a goal, focus on it and make it happen. Sounds like a Science project? Men and women are exactly that. Math and poetry, day and night, fire and ice. However, that's what makes things interesting. Comprise is the best cure for all. To make it simple, here's another breakthrough quote: women need to be less emotional, more understanding of their men, while men need to be more emotional, and not understand their women at all. Let's go figure.

Still wanting to know more on what men want in a woman? Put your curiosity to rest and visit my website for a much detailed, more elaborate, even fun ideas to make your relationships work. And look forward for a happier, more blissful life together!

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Mark Taylor is an expert on seduction attraction and dating. He has helped thousands of men attract beautiful women and get over their shyness and transform into confident men. MasterOnlineDater.com

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What Do Men Like In A Woman

Men and women are not the same, this means that they look for different things in a partner. Here are things that answer the question What Do Men Like In A Woman ?

Men like honesty,loving and trust. Truthful communication and trust top for men. To be trusted is what all men desire deep inside his heart. They like in a woman answers to their questions honestly, and men like in a woman, a woman who asks for her needs to be met by her man.

Men also want excitement and thrill in a woman. Remember men also want lots of passionate sex. Men bond through being physically connected to a woman. And the act of making love is how a man feels that you love him and feels close to you. They are just a few things that answer the question what do men like in a woman ?

So if you are any of the following !

A single woman who wants to attract the right man -- or add romance to your dating life

A woman who dates frequently, but finds it hard to sustain a relationship with a man;

A woman who wants to be married but can't seem to persuade the man in your life to pop the question; or

A married woman who wants to spark the fire within your marriage and enjoy deeper intimacy with your husband .

Then visit THE WOMEN THAT MEN ADORE to learn more about what do men like in a woman.